Do you know that disorganised women fall in love with serious men and end up in disappointments?
We reportedly fall in love with wrong people because the brain seeks familiarity and we resist change. Even if it means being with some one who makes us feel insignificant. Growing up with inadequate parents who replicate the same negative patterns, damages self esteem.
We fall in love with wrong people because when we are not happy in current relationships we tend to go on to the next one who is available without knowing their intentions, discipline and if they have qualities we are always looking for in a lover.
Wrong relationships are very much stressing but on the other hand they can make one wiser and the master by helping us know what we want and what we don’t want in a partner.If you reportedly fall in love with people who never love you back you need to think a bout yourself.
love is both feelings and attractions and it encompasses deep affection attachment and complex of emotions.
Do you know that a wrong relationship is mostly caused by money?
Most of the girls fall in love with men who have money with the aim of earning, which means they go to the relationship not for love but for money which at the end makes most of the men disappointed since they don’t get what they expected to get in women.
Women are no longer interested in young men because they are poor but instead they are rushing for the old men whom they think have every a mount of money they need.
There are some signs that used to prove that someone is truly in love but of which most of the people have started to forge and that is communication, support, attention and enjoying each others company.
Do you know that love has no level?
It’s unfortunate that most of the people have started rejecting true love just because they think a certain person is not their level because of their age, level of Education, family back ground and what they do for survival.
Some parents have made their young ones fall in a wrong relationships just because they are discriminative they don’t need a certain person from a certain family to marry in their family and they have to decide of who to marry and whom to leave.
Do you know that Culture Also contributes to the fact of falling in love with wrong people?
since some people still believe that people of the same tribe cant marry each others make some people end up falling in love with wrong people. In banyankole they have bridal carrying (okukyiriza) where by women are forcefully taken to marriage
BY CATHELINE ANKUNDA.
