CUPID’S ARROW: The Evolution of Valentine’s; The Highs And Lows.

Valentine’s day is celebrated on 14th of February every year and this is the time when individuals
express their love and affection for one another through the exchange of cards, flowers and gifts. The
origin of Valentine’s day dates back to ancient Roman times when Emperor Claudius II banned
marriage in an effort to strengthen his army. St. Valentine, a priest in Rome, defied the emperor’s
orders and continued to perform marriages in secret. When he was caught St. Valentine was
sentenced to death on February 14th and it is said that he sent a letter to his jailer’s daughter signed
(From Your Valentine), thus creating the first Valentine’s Day Card.

Love is a complex and a multifaceted emotion that can bring both joy and pain. The good things about
love include feelings of happiness, contentment, and connection with another person. Love can
inspire us to be our best selves, to support and uplift one another, and bring out feelings of sadness,
disappointment, and heartbreak. When love goes awry, it can lead to feelings of betrayal, loneliness,
and despair. Despite the potential for pain, many individuals continue to choose love because of the
deep connection and fulfilment it can bring.

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Patience is a virtue that is essential for maintaining healthy and lasting relationships. Love requires
patience, in times of disagreement, conflict and hardship. By practicing patience, individuals can
better their communication, understand and support one another through the ups and downs of life.
The fruits of love include a sense of security, trust and intimacy with another person. Love can bring
about personal growth, resilience and a deeper appreciation for the World around us.
People display various versions of themselves depending on their emotions and experiences. When
individuals are happy, they may be outgoing ,energetic and enthusiastic. When they are sad, they may
be confrontational, defensive and explosive. And when they are silly, they may be playful, carefree,
and spontaneous. By understanding these different versions of a person, we can better empathize,
relate and connect with them on a degree level.

Valentine’s day is an opportunity to celebrate love in its many forms. Whether it is romantic love
with a partner, familial love with a parent or child, or friendship love with a friend, Valentine’s Day is a
time to express gratitude, appreciation, and affection for the special people in our lives. By
celebrating Valentine’s Day we can show our loved ones how much they mean to us, strengthen our
connections, and create lasting memories that will be cherished for years to come.

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In other-words, Valentine’s Day is a time to celebrate the joys and challenges of love, to practise
patience, understanding and to express gratitude for the special people in our lives. Love is a powerful
force that can bring about deep connection, fulfilment, and personal growth. By choosing to love
even when it hurts, we can experience the many fruits and create everlasting memories that will be
cherished for years to come. So let us all come together and embrace this special day by spreading
love and joy to those people that mean a lot to us.